Have you vowed that you would never get married again? Or perhaps you wonder whether your marriage could have been saved if you redefined it based on what it meant to you, and not to others? I talk with co-author of the book, The New I Do, who interviewed couples who had reshaped their marriage based on what worked for them. She says that marriage is a “shame-based” model and too many people feel like a failure when it comes to their marriage. This is a fascinating discussion and will make you think way outside the marital box!