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I am living proof that I was able to overcome abuse, find healthy love, and create a better version of myself. My personal growth, and my newfound love of life, came mostly from reading the books I recommend here. My success resulted from researching two genres: clinical and spiritual. The clinical research explored all aspects of narcissism and codependency, so I could understand why and how dysfunctional relationships occur. The spiritual research explored the missing link of self-love, why we lose it, and how to get it back. When I combined the two, something magical happened. Not only did my pain go away, I felt happy and at peace. I hope, through your research, you will find a similar path.

Clinical Resource Books

MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist by Lindsey Ellison (yours truly)

The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap by Ross Rosenberg

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie

Narcissists Exposed: 75 Things Narcissists Don’t Want You to Know by Drew Keys

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists by Eleanor Payson and Cathryn Bond Doyle

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship by Mira Kirshenbaum

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend

How to Break Your Addiction to a Person by Howard M. Halpern, Ph.D.

Will I Ever Be Free of You?: How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist and Heal Your Family by Dr. Karyl McBride, Ph.D.

Spiritual Resource Books

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay

Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsh

Awaken the Inner Shaman by Jose Luis Stevens

The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships by Esther and Jerry Hicks

The Law of Divine Compensation by Marianne Williamson

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The REVOLUTION by Brené Brown

The Anatomy of Spirit by Caroline Myss Ph.D.

Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of the Tao by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza

Web Resources and Other Inspiring Tidbits

Narcissist Abuse Support – If you’re looking for online support groups or affordable group coaching, this is the place to start.

My Favorite YouTube Channels/Videos

Lindsey Ellison (yours truly!) I’m just getting this channel going but please subscribe!

Tracy Malone – Plus check out my interview with Tracy here.

Ross Rosenburg, author of The Human Magnet Syndrome. Also watch my interview with Ross here.

Dr. Joe Dispenza, author of Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself

Marisa Peer, You Are Enough

TD Jakes, The Stumbling Stage

Jason Stephenson, Sleep Meditations

Dauchsy, Manifesting through Meditation

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